About
Julia Bascom is an Autistic writer, and Just Stimming… is her internet home and the official depository of her collected writings up disability, disability justice, and growing up and living as an Autistic girl.
Julia started writing when she was twelve and now makes speeches and presentations on Autistic identity and culture, as well as contributing to the blog LOVE-NOS.
Parties interested in publishing Julia’s work or paying her to write something should contact her at juststimming at gmail dot com.
Dear Julia,
I’m technologically challenged and not sure if you received my post. So i’ll say it again. You are a terrific writer, autism or no. Wish i could write like you. Bravo.
Kate.
catherinegordon (@catherinegordon)
December 8, 2011 at 8:08 am
Julia,
I don’t know where to begin. Your writing has affected me so deeply. It has quite literally shaped how I plan to live my life from this point forward. For the past 7 years, I have dedicated my career to trying to help individuals with Autism. I seem to have a knack for “getting” kids with Autism, and I always am able to establish rapport very quickly, and am able to get to work quickly with helping them communicate their desires and needs, my fundamental objective. I often accomplish this with music and dance, and I have become a music therapist. I am working to complete my special education and behavior analysis credentials, mostly so that people will listen to me about what I feel so strongly these kids need that they are not getting. You have truly opened my eyes to what is lacking in their world of being educated.
One thing that you have inspired me to do is to try to start a movement of awareness about the unique way that individuals with autism express themselves. I think part of why I have success with music and dance is because when the kids are with me, anything goes. We relate to each other without words (without any chance for any mistakes), and through music, dance, and fun. When they’re with me, they can run the show and have fun in their way and it’s okay.
I want people to know about how different people express their joy, whether they have Autism or not, and to be inspired by it, not put off or made uncomfortable by it. If people weren’t so stuck on fitting in and trying to impress other people, they could feel more free to express themselves more naturally. I want to create the awareness and the freedom to embrace all expressions in themselves and in others. This would equal a freedom of expression for all and would benefit people with disabilities who may express things in a different, though no less beautiful way.
I just wanted to thank you. I will keep you updated on my progress as I try to affect this change in the world.
Can you recommend any other writers who have reported on their unique expressions of emotion through their hands and otherwise. I aim to build a foundation of individuals reporting how they express themselves in different ways, especially with “stimming,” and how they are expressing emotions and interacting with the world in their own way, not just merely trying to regulate their sensory systems as I once believed, and many still believe.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for your bravery, honesty, and candid, beautiful self-expression.
Sincerely,
Kelly aka Amira
Amira Brewcat
December 11, 2011 at 12:04 pm
If you have not seen “in my language” http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JnylM1hI2jc start there.
I would caution you, though, that *Autistic* people need to be the ones telling our stories. They’re ours. Some of us are actually working on projects similar to what you’ve described–I know I am. I’ll be making apost about that soon, so stick around!
Julia
December 11, 2011 at 12:54 pm
Julia – I cannot thank you enough for your writing, for being brave enough to put these words “out there” and trying to make people understand. I have just returned from another IEP, in which I have informed the school that I will not support a “quiet hands” policy for my son. I took a copy of your post with me for each person at that table. It is so important, for those of us who really want to understand, that work like yours be brought into the mainstream.
SB (@Quirksalot)
December 12, 2011 at 4:05 pm
All I can say is, we love you Julia. You have awakened things within us that we have so long been missing. The clouds have slowly parted and we can see our children so much more for who they truly ARE than who we would like them to be! And in turn we learn so much about ourselves as well.
As a mother of a child with Autism (the apple of my eye), I applaud you in bringing this awareness forward, for sharing your thoughts and feelings. It is so refreshing to read posts like yours that are not written from the perspective of a medical doctor, a parent or a teacher but from YOU and your unique take on life! Only you know what the world is like for you and others who fall under the PDD umbrella. We, the masses, only have vague ideas.
Thank you again and continue to share!
Linda
Linda Nelson (@LemonDropFoodie)
December 12, 2011 at 4:09 pm
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December 15, 2011 at 8:55 am
Hi Julia,
I’m the photo editor at Babble.com and we’re putting together our Top 30 Autism blogs and you’re on the list! Congratulations! I’ve enjoyed reading some of the pieces you have on your site and can see why you are in our top 30. Do you have a photo I could use to put with the write-up? Anything at all that you could send would be wonderful. The piece goes live on Monday, so as soon as possible is perfect. Please email me at: raydene[@]babble.com.
Thank you so much and congratulations again!
Raydene Salinas
Photo Editor
Raydene Salinas
April 6, 2012 at 3:09 pm
I cannot tell you how much I love you. I read you out loud today in a meeting wherethey said they will be coming to our house to inspect four times a year AND once a month. Oh and yea, we are suppose to do fire safety and earthquake preparedness, and chemical hazards training once a week. I told them we don’t want to spend another month of our lives focused on danger, and fear, and risk… Because mostly we do life, and community and other prosocial life affirming activities, just like other families who don’t have disabilities. And like Henry David Thoreau saif in Walden, “If I new for a certainty that a man was coming to my house with the conscious design of doing me some good, I should run for my life.”
Seriously love you in a heart-breaking praise-godding way! Write, write, write! Then we can know how to say it finally!
nvadvocate
May 3, 2012 at 2:02 am
Hi there
I nominated you for the Versatile Blogger Award. Check it out at
http://aileenmcgee.wordpress.com/2012/05/04/the-versatile-blogger-award/
ailialana
May 4, 2012 at 8:26 am